Relationships are not a game. If you lose the game, it is easy to restart. But once you lose the relationship, if you want to start over, the time and energy you put in is not as simple as restarting the game. Next, I will give you some popular science about what kind of women you cannot date. When you encounter these three kinds of women, it is recommended that you run away quickly.
1. Most of the chats are about complaining
When a girl comes to chat with you every three days, It may be on a certain night, or it may be on a certain morning, it may be intermittent in the middle, and the content of the conversation is mostly about her bad things.
In this case, it may be difficult for you to figure out whether she likes you or just sees yourself as a tree hole.
If she always confides her emotions to you unilaterally, and you always play the role of a comforting and encouraging listener, I believe you will not be very happy when you finally get together.
2. Suggest gifts every now and then
It is normal to chase girls and give them gifts, but If a girl takes the initiative to suggest that you give a gift, then it's a bit of a problem. If you say give it to her, if she's a scumbag and you feel a bit shortchanged, don't give it to her, and you think the other girl will think you're stingy.
Some friends are anxious inside. In fact, when a girl hints at giving us gifts for the first few times, we can accept them generously. After a girl receives the gift, if she likes you, she will definitely give you a gift. She will also return the gift in her own way.
For those who receive gifts without any feedback, they still intentionally or unintentionally hint that you want to give material gifts in the chat.
For girls like this, we can run away first.
Stop the loss in time. Don’t spend 180,000 yuan on her in just three sentences. Instead, consider spending 3 yuan on her in 180,000 sentences.
Although it is normal to give gifts in a relationship, isn’t this still a relationship?
< h2>3. Self-centeredIf love is a circle, then half of you and half of her make it a circle. Half of you and one half of her are a bit lacking.
Love is mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. She is not the axis of rotation, but you are the earth. It rotates every day, 365 days a year, without stopping.
If a girl in love always asks you to be on standby 24 hours a day, appear immediately when she needs you, and standby immediately when she doesn’t need you, you may also be her boyfriend, but it’s a pity that you are a mechanical boyfriend.
She asks you to buy supper on a rainy day, and asks you to come to her immediately if she is a little unhappy.If something doesn't sit well with you, she will immediately become an angry little fairy. She will cry, make trouble, and hang herself. You can't coax her for a day or two.
She never cares that you have to go to work and you also have a job. Even sometimes you want to refuse, but you can only bury it silently in your heart. There is no negotiation between you, only obedience.
You may hope that she will remember your kindness, and this investment will eventually be rewarded. Maybe one day your attitude will be a little tougher, and then she will think that you have changed.
