Question: I just met a girl recently. We met at a friend gathering and we had a good chat. Today when we were chatting on WeChat, the girl took the initiative to recommend a few songs to me. I would like to ask what does it mean for a girl to recommend songs to boys? We are just friends who have only known each other for a short time, and we don’t have a particularly close relationship yet.

What does it mean when a girl recommends a song to a boy?

Answer: When a girl recommends a song to you, it may mean the following situations:

 1. A song often conveys some information and signals to people. Since you two have just met, there are many possibilities. If you have a crush on girls, take this opportunity to be brave. If there are no emotions in your heart, you can assume that the other person just wants to express her feelings at that time. In a word, leave no regrets~

2. If a girl recommends love songs to you, then she may be interested in further developing a relationship with you. After all, even if a girl likes you, she won't take the initiative to say it, but will let you understand through some actions or details. Maybe there is something she wants to say in the lyrics. If you can understand it, you will know how to do it. If you can't understand it, you may lose an opportunity. .

 3. Maybe a girl heard a song by chance and thought it was very good. She really thought the song was good and she happened to be chatting with you, so she simply shared this song with you. In any case, if a girl can recommend songs to you, it means that your relationship has gone beyond that of ordinary friends. This can be considered a good phenomenon.

I think you shouldn’t think too much for the time being. Take a look below to see if the girl has any other hints. If there are many small hints, it means that it means what you think. If not, you won't be disappointed.

4. Maybe the girl finds it easy to talk to, feels that she and you have many common topics, and feels like she has met a close friend, so Just share your favorite songs with you. After all, you have such a good conversation, you should also like the songs she likes. This feeling of having common interests is really very happy.

5. Maybe the girl just wants to find a topic to chat with you. Share her favorite songs and bring up the topic. This can be regarded as a favorable move!

6. The meaning of a girl recommending a song to you is mostly based on the specific situation, and you should have an idea in your mind. Generally, songs that are ambiguous may be because they are too reserved and shy to say it directly, so they give you a hint. Or maybe the girl is a master at teasing, using lyrics to make you think about something, and in the end she can pretend to be innocent, and then you'll be fooled.

In short, boys, don’t think that a girl actively recommends songs to you just because she is interested in you. Don’t be presumptuous when the time comes. You and the girl won’t even be friends.

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