Some girls always give people a very cold impression, but they cannot be blasphemed from a distance. Maybe you talk for a long time every time you chat, and the other person only says a gentle "Oh". You must be very disappointed when you see him being so cold. So what are the techniques for chatting with aloof girls?
1. Keep yourself mysterious
< p> Many people think that chasing a girl requires a lot of heart and soul, and when chatting with her, they talk non-stop. This approach is not wrong, just inappropriate. We should maintain our own sense of mystery appropriately to make the other party interested in you. The key to maintaining a sense of mystery is to practice Tai Chi, do not ask questions or answer questions directly, keep some of your own information, and do not tell the other party unreservedly about yourself. Otherwise, what else can she have to explore about you?2. Don’t keep your stance too low
Girls are like this. The lower your stance is, the more attached you will be to her. The more aloof and cold they become, the more they ignore you. The correct attitude towards communication is to put two people in the same position. Don't reply to her message immediately, or even reply a little later. Wait for a while before replying. You can say sorry for being too busy. Only then will she understand that you will not support her all the time, and she will also understand that she is just an ordinary girl in front of you. She no longer has a sense of superiority and is naturally no longer aloof. Then continue to contact her as usual, and occasionally give her a little surprise, and you can catch her.
3. Selection of chat topics
The most common mistake in chatting is to chat with women about news, Current affairs, study, work. Some people always talk to girls about your work projects, your worries at work, excessive preaching, criticism, and complaints. Doing so will only prevent you from attracting them. When chatting with an aloof girl, it is better to talk about topics related to you and her, such as your life, experiences, and thoughts. The more things you have in common, the closer you will be to her, and the more she will enjoy spending time with you.
The key to pursuing a cool girl is to treat her as an ordinary girl and get along with her naturally. If you always put yourself in a lower position, then the less likely she will like you.
