At a certain age, most people will choose to get married and have children. Even if they don’t want to, they may be forced by their parents. But now more and more older women would rather choose to go against their parents than get married. What’s wrong with this? The reason?
The reason why most older women who don’t want to get married actually doesn’t get married is because they don’t want to make do with it. They all think Marriage is just a formality. Marriage is only happy when you meet the right person; but when you meet the wrong person, marriage will turn into a disaster.
I have chatted with many older female friends around me, and I have also seen and heard many older women’s worries. In fact, everyone wants to have a happy marriage, but they are unwilling to make do with it. They would rather wait for the right person to appear than casually enter into marriage with the wrong person.
They feel that without love as a foundation, a marriage will be like a loose sand. Once the marriage between two people encounters a conflict or misunderstanding, it will be blown away by the wind and eventually fall into pieces.
Many people say that this is because of the "fast food style marriage". Many people have only known each other for a while and then fell in love in a hurry. They walked into the palace of marriage. Before the sweet period of marriage passed, they immediately applied for a divorce certificate due to various conflicts.
Getting married is easy, but happiness is difficult. As social pressure continues to increase, women's helplessness in marriage is also increasing.
After marriage, many women not only have to raise children, but also take on housework, and more importantly, they have to balance career and family. Under double pressure, they walk on thin ice every day, always looking for ways to realize their self-worth while maintaining the status quo of their marriage.
Under this kind of pressure, it is really difficult to have a strong willpower and perseverance in marriage. happiness.
To take a step back, even if they really find a suitable way to maintain their marriage and realize their self-worth, as the pressure accumulates day by day, there is no guarantee that they will collapse one day.
Therefore, many older women are not willing to live breathlessly under this kind of pressure. They would rather stay single and do what they like than casually marry someone they don’t love and then bear the burden of it. The dual pressures of marriage and career.
