When many boys are chatting with girls, they often encounter girls who ignore them. At this time, they become anxious, bombarded with crazy messages, and finally enter the girl's blacklist. So how should you chat with her so that she doesn't ignore you?
1. Learn to attract her at the right time
I don’t know if you have this feeling. When you first add a girl to WeChat, she will reply to your messages quickly. Even if the topic you chat about is not very interesting, she will reply to you quickly. Because she is not very familiar with anything about you at this time, and she is also very curious about what kind of person you are, so she wants to get to know you through chatting. If you make her feel that you are a person who understands life and is motivated, she will be attracted to you quickly. On the contrary, if you don't do the work to attract her at the beginning, it will be much more difficult for you to attract her as time goes by.
2. Learn to read girls’ subtext
Men always like to say what is on their mind. Things can be expressed as directly as possible, but girls pay more attention to their own feelings, and express things in their hearts as tactfully as possible. Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, many men leave a bad impression on girls because they cannot correctly read the subtext of girls. After that, the girls' attitude towards him gradually becomes worse. Therefore, when you chat with a girl, you should analyze her true inner thoughts more, instead of just replying immediately after seeing her message.
3. Cut off the chat at the right time
Boys with little love experience are talking to the girl they like When chatting, they often don’t take the initiative to chat. They think that chatting with the person they like will make them happy for a second longer. But have you ever thought that everyone's energy is limited, and doing one thing for a long time will inevitably become boring. It's better to end today's chat at the right time, and wait until her energy has recovered the next day to go to her. chat. However, there are certain techniques for ending a chat. You have to leave the girl with a suspense so that she can take the initiative to come to you for answers tomorrow and you can continue chatting happily.
