Girls always mean what they say and say no, but they may not mean it in their hearts. If you misunderstand what she means, it is likely to make her unhappy. So what does a girl mean when she says no? How should I reply to her?
1. What does a girl mean when she says no?
1. Decline politely You
If a girl rejects your confession, your goodwill, or even deliberately keeps a distance from you, it means that she does not like you and is rejecting you tactfully. For example, if you are having an affair with a girl, the girl will turn on the red light. If you call her baby, the girl will immediately stop you and not let you call her that, which means that she is rejecting you.
2. I’m polite to you
In this case, girls often say no, but they accept it in their hearts. If you meet a girl who is polite to you, you can keep trying. When a woman pretends to be polite, she usually doesn't dislike chatting with you, but is just polite to you when you show her kindness. For example, if you invite a girl to have dinner together, and the girl says no, just keep insisting, the girl will agree to it, which means she is being polite to you.
3. Feeling burdened
If your purpose of pursuing a girl is too obvious, and when the relationship is not in place, confess your feelings, send expensive gifts, flowers, and red envelopes, the girl will You will feel pressured. Because the current stage of your relationship is not enough for a girl to accept your advances with peace of mind.
2. How to reply to a girl when she says no need?
1. When giving a gift, a girl says no need.
Faced with the girl he likes, whose birthday is about to happen and Valentine’s Day is coming soon, men will think of giving girls gifts to express their feelings. As a result, the other party said "no need". In this case, it's probably because the other party doesn't want to owe you anything, and by refusing to accept the gift, it's a hint that you're giving up.
Girls are very ritualistic creatures, and they usually pay special attention to birthdays and Valentine’s Day. Girls are naturally happy when a boy they like gives you a gift, and they usually prepare corresponding gifts for you or treat you to dinner in return.
If the gift you give is not a particularly expensive gift, and a girl says no, she usually doesn’t want to owe you a debt, and is afraid that you will think too much if she accepts your gift.
Reply: Okay, then I owe you what I owe you first, and I will make up for it in the future.
2. When helping a girl, the girl says no.
As a basic social etiquette, when we take the initiative to help a girl, we say no out of politeness, which is considered a normal social response. At this time, we can hold on and observe the girl's attitude. If the girl is just being polite, we should continue to provide help; if the other party insists on not needing your help and continues to reject your kindness, there is no need to persist.Hold on. Most likely the other person doesn't want to owe you any favors, or even wants to have anything to do with you.
Reply: No need to be polite to me, it’s easy. Don't worry, you don't need to repay me with your body.
3. When you ask a girl out, she says no
When you ask a girl out, you must follow the correct process and rules. , rashly invite girls in the form of a relationship, usually girls will directly say "no need". When a girl says this, it's probably because she feels that your relationship isn't there yet, and you haven't reached the point where you need an invitation.
When encountering this situation, do not continue to try. The more times you try, the worse your impression will be on girls. A girl doesn't want to date you emotionally, and it's hard to change that with your words.
Reply: Okay, let’s talk about it when we get a chance. Let’s talk about life and ideals together
4. Send a girl home and the girl says no.
If It is already very late. It is the basic etiquette of a boy to send girls home safely or to the car. Believe me, even if you are in a normal relationship with a girl, as long as the girl does not dislike you as a person, it is a plus.
When we meet a girl and say no, we can say that we have time, and to prevent the girl from misunderstanding, we can say that we just send her downstairs.
