Maybe two people are full of passion at the beginning of the relationship, but this state of passion will not last long, and one day the relationship may enter a dull period. When does the dull period of love usually appear? If you find that you have entered a dull period in love, how should you survive the dull period in love and reach the end?
1. When does the dull period of love usually occur?
In fact, when the dull period of love enters depends on the love process of the couple, there is no fixed time. Some couples may have been in a dull relationship for three months, while some couples have been in a relationship for three years and are still in a passionate relationship. This has something to do with the relationship between the two people and whether they have self-regulation. When you feel that you are becoming more and more familiar with each other and passion appears less and less, it is probably the dull period of love.
2. How to spend the dull period of love
1. Face the dull period of love
< p> In fact, no couple will reach the stage of dull love, it is just a matter of time. So don’t worry when you find the dull period coming, learn to view the dull period correctly. Even if the dull period of love comes, we can adjust each other's mentality in time, instead of leaving a huge sense of gap.When you accept that flat periods are normal, your mentality will naturally change accordingly. Entering a dull period does not mean that you are no longer in love, it just means that it is more difficult to maintain that kind of passionate love. Now that the difficulty has increased, let’s try challenging it to a higher difficulty level.
2. Increase the passion of love
In fact, after two people have been together for a long time, their passion will fade away. It's just that many couples who persevere are good at finding passion in the ordinary, and they can make ordinary days live happily.
For example, a bouquet of flowers on Valentine’s Day, a birthday cake on your birthday, a candlelight dinner on an anniversary, a hiking trip on a holiday, a movie time on the weekend, a surprise on a weekday dinner...it seems obvious to others Ordinary days can be made wonderful by them, and even in the dull period of love, the two of them can still continue their romance.
Of course, if you want to keep a relationship fresh, you need both parties to work together, rather than maintaining it unilaterally, otherwise it will not be able to maintain it. The freshness depends on the emotional intelligence, time, and emphasis on feelings of both parties. But if you just want the novelty of love, you can let it go at any time. Therefore, it is normal to say that love is dull, and it is not advisable to pursue excitement blindly.
Generally speaking, it is really difficult when a relationship reaches its dull period. It really takes two people to survive. effort. Moreover, the dull period of love is actually not dull. It happens to be the most real state of two people, and it is also the time when two people are attracted by each other.The state of mutual assimilation tests whether you are really suitable for each other and whether you can make it to the end.
