Attraction brings two strangers together. When the attraction weakens, the two parties may have conflicts or even break up. Therefore, if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you need to learn how to maintain attraction. So how to maintain long-term attraction so that she only sees you?
1. Maintain your own value Sense of scarcity
"Things are rare and valuable", I believe everyone knows this truth. Similarly, this principle also applies in relationships. If you want a girl to think about you all the time and care about you every minute, then you must first remember one thing - "maintain a sense of scarcity of your own value."
Specifically, you can do it from the following two aspects:
First: Don’t let the other party get you easily
The more difficult it is to get something, the more likely it is that people will get it. The more I fantasize about it, the more beautiful it becomes. Therefore, in the early stages of dating, you must know how to whet your appetite and how to say no.
Second: Not always available
You can occasionally not contact him for a few days, and wait for the other person to come to you when he misses you. Or don’t let the other person get his way every time and see you when he wants to go on a date. In short, it is necessary to create some "blank space" between you, so that there is a little room for each other to miss each other.
2. Create a good sense of your own value
If you don’t contact her, in addition to stimulating her feelings towards In addition to your desire to conquer and longing for you, there is actually another situation that may occur, that is, she cannot bear the loneliness and turns to other boys.
So how to prevent this situation and make things develop in the direction you want?
The key is that you have to create good time with her and create beautiful memories for her. , so that he can still have unfinished thoughts and be full of daydreams about you when he can't see you.
So, when you are with her, please try your best to create a good feeling for her, chat with her enough and have a lot of fun, so that she feels that you and him are in the same channel. I can feel your unique charm.
In this way, when you leave a blank space for him, she will constantly think of the good memories you had together and can't help but I miss you so much.
Another thing is to improve your self-charisma. Only when people are thirsty for high-value things, will they work hard to have them.
Therefore, only by working hard to improve your charm and high value can you make girls miss you.
How to do this?
On the one hand, you need to improve your hard power and work hard to improve your external conditions.
For example, pay attention to your dress, or expand your knowledge, show your work ability or strengths in certain fields.
In short, it is everything that can be seen.
On the other hand, you should continue to strengthen your soft power.
What is soft power? Soft power is actually what we call various chatting skills, love psychology, and various practical skills about sexual emotions. Only in this way can you better understand a woman's psychology and hold her heart tightly.
