The relationship between husband and wife requires two people to work hard to maintain it, so that it will not be defeated by the monotony and boredom day after day. After a man gets married and starts a career, It is not only necessary to make money to support the family, but also to meet the emotional needs of women, otherwise emotional problems will easily occur and lead to marital crisis.
1. Intimacy needs (women don’t care about right or wrong, but your attitude)
Ignore The man at home is not a good man. ——"The Godfather"
Some men fall in love and get married, and then they start to lose interest in their partner. They think that the relationship between two people is already established and they don’t need to invest any more energy. In this way, The idea is completely wrong.
In marriage, women have many times when they need to work hard - working, doing housework, taking care of children... If the husband cannot give his wife the intimacy needs, the woman will not only be physically tired, but also mentally tired!< /p>
Gradually, I began to feel that this kind of "living together" was boring.
2. Dependence needs (women are for love)
When a woman marries you, it is In order to seek dependence, protection, and care, if a woman relies on herself for everything in the family and becomes too independent, then the husband's existence will become dispensable.
This is why many women feel that they are living in a "widowed marriage" after getting married, because they cannot find a sense of dependence on their husbands and do everything by themselves.
Once a woman’s dependence needs are not met, she is likely to have the idea of ????divorce.
3. The need for trust (actions are greater than empty promises)
What women hate most is lip service. A powerful man - he only talks but never takes action.
Those unfulfilled promises are like empty promises, which can make a woman happy for a while, but when her husband cannot prove it in action, she will feel very disappointed because her husband is in a certain situation. He deceived her to such an extent!
If the husband always talks empty words in marriage, it will cause a lack of trust. This is a very important key in the marriage relationship. If a woman no longer trusts her husband, , it is actually very difficult for such a marriage to continue.
