To put it bluntly, fake love means that you are nominally boyfriend and girlfriend, but all your interactions are formulaic and follow a process. Your relationship will not move forward with the development of two people. It will be a static state from the beginning of being together.
Under normal circumstances, two people who are in love will explore each other, and after being together for a long time, each other will You can know what the other person wants to do without even saying a glance, but you also have a general idea.
If you have been together for a long time, the other person still maintains a relatively stable emotional state at all times. He has never lost his temper, made no demands on you, and never talked about his own affairs, making it impossible for you to understand him better. she.
Deliberately maintain your relationship in a stable but not so intimate state. You can’t tell what’s wrong with her, but she has no warmth. This is another state of fake love, a perfect lover. .
There are many reasons for this situation. It may be the other party's problem, such as her avoidance of intimacy personality, or she simply She doesn’t want to establish a long-term relationship with you; it’s also possible that you’re not very good at managing relationships and haven’t guided her to expose herself to you normally, because she would be worried about affecting the stability of your relationship, etc.
In short, there are many possibilities, and detailed analysis needs to be done based on more specific circumstances.
There is also a state of pseudo-love, which we can call “AI lover”.
In a normal relationship, two people will establish an intimate relationship while getting along.
For example, developing common interests and hobbies together, exchanging each other’s opinions and secrets, planning and participating in some activities together will also deepen the psychological connection.
But if the two of you are usually busy with your own affairs, you can send a few words via WeChat as a routine, have a meal together as a routine, Routine kissing and hugging is like dealing with an artificial intelligence. This relationship is just a simple companionship and cannot be considered a normal state.
False love is not caused by a single reason. The sooner you pay attention to it and solve it, the sooner you can make the relationship develop in a positive direction.
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