The purpose of chatting is to invite a date, but sometimes when the chat is very happy, the girl refuses when the date is proposed. At this time, boys will feel very embarrassed and don't know how to deal with it. In fact, this is the wrong time to invite her. As long as you have the right time, it is easy to ask her out. So how do we use WeChat to ask girls out?
Preparation before dating
1 , Keep in touch and gain trust
If you just met and you proposed to meet as soon as you arrived, the girl would definitely refuse it directly. Because she doesn't know you at all, how can she determine whether you are a bad person? So first chat with her more and build a certain amount of trust, so that when you ask for a date, she will not refuse in a hurry.
2. Make her interested in you
If you ask "What are you doing" every time you chat, and she always replies "Hehe" and "I'm going to take a shower." Then when you invite her, she will most likely not come out. Only if she shows interest in you while chatting will she be able to agree to meet. Therefore, interest is the key to invitation and the most important prerequisite.
Specific invitation steps
1. Preliminary test and vague invitation.
First of all, we can put forward the concept of invitation without determining the specific time and place. The purpose is to test her attitude towards your invitation. Assuming she doesn't resent your invitation, you can take it a step further. For example, "I heard that XX has a new dessert shop. Do you want to try it out and see how it tastes?" "I heard that a new movie was released recently and it has a good reputation. Let's go and see it together when we have time?" /p>
2. Determine the invitation time
After determining the attitude, we should know whether she is disgusted with your invitation or not. expect. The next step is to find a suitable date. The preparation is to inquire about the girl's working hours, see when she usually takes vacation, and whether she has any plans for that day.
It is worth noting that the date should not be too early or too late. If it's too early, you won't have enough time for girls to dress up; if it's too late, it will appear that you have ulterior motives. In addition, don’t let the intervals between invitations be too long, otherwise the girls’ expectations for you will be exhausted.
3. Confirm the date and formally invite
After the above two points are affirmatively confirmed, you can initiate a formal invitation. I believe she will not reject you at this time, because she already has expectations for you and has time to see you.
When you go on a formal date, you must not be late, and you must also pay attention to your dress. Regardless of whether the girl comes to meet or not, you must keep in touch with her and not show dissatisfaction. When chatting, it's best to keep a girl interested in you so that she doesn't regret it temporarily.
PhaseAfter reading this article, you also know how to use WeChat to date girls. If you are too timid, girls will feel uninterested; if you push too hard, girls will feel scared. Pay attention to the timing and boldly ask her out.
