Chasing girls requires patience and energy. Instead of investing in girls, it is better to invest in yourself. When you attract girls, girls will start to take the initiative. You and girls can be together naturally without you having to put much thought into it. !
Show attractiveness
If you want girls to take the initiative, you must have the capital to let girls take the initiative! However, I believe that most boys are ordinary people, honest people, and do not have many outstanding attractions.
In fact, attraction does not require too much, only one item is enough. This attraction can be appearance, talent, temperament, personality... As long as you successfully attract girls, through the halo effect , it can be very simple to let girls take the initiative.
Therefore, when asking girls to take the initiative, they must not be introverted, inferior, shy, timid, etc., but confidently show their attractiveness to girls.
When you attract a girl, love will happen naturally, and she will automatically ignore your shortcomings.
Show affinity
After attracting girls, you need to show affinity to them.
This is a signal to girls that you are very easy-going and easy to get along with.
If you show your attractiveness but show a face that you don’t want to approach, I believe that no matter how good you are, not many girls will be willing to take the initiative to find you.
Use affinity to release the possibilities between you and a girl, and then she will have the courage to take the initiative to find you, otherwise she will only fall in love with you secretly or give up on you.
Contact girls
No one wants to have a warm face but a cold butt, especially girls. It is difficult for her to insist on blindly letting girls take the initiative. After all, social consciousness has given women " The necessity of "reserve".
Therefore, after letting the girl take the initiative, you also need to take the initiative to contact the girl, so that the relationship between the two people can have feedback and interaction, so that the relationship can easily develop in the long term.
While getting in touch with girls, you can also gain a deeper understanding of important information such as girls’ personalities, preferences, and living habits, which will facilitate the development of relationships in the future.
Coordinate with girls’ personalities
Different girls have different personalities, and it is impossible to follow them with just one formula. to all girls, so when letting girls take the initiative, it is necessary to clarify the girl's personality characteristics.
When getting along with a girl, try to match her personality when speaking and doing things, so that the girl feels relaxed, natural and comfortable. This will give the girl a lot of security and make her like to be with you. At the same time, it will also make her more proactive.
