Chasing a girl is definitely not just about being ordinary friends with her. So when the girl you like tells you "Let's be friends", is there any chance of chasing her?
When girls talk about being friends, what we have to do is not to defend ourselves, let alone take offense. Instead, respond to the girl based on the actual situation.
For the girl I just met, I did not convey an intuitive sense of need. Girls, girls are probably testing you when they say this. She is testing whether you have fallen on your knees under her pomegranate skirt, or testing whether you are a boy with attitude and value. When a frustrated man encounters this kind of situation, he will ask questions and explain. For example, I actually know that you won’t like this version of mine. This is a trap for women, and they will immediately lose interest in you.
The intuitive sense of need refers to confessing, giving gifts, flattering, and asking for help. In short, a girl clearly knows that you like her.
High EQ reply: Aren’t we the same now? Are you suggesting that I become closer friends now?
If you propose to be friends with a girl you have been in contact with and chatted with for a while, most likely the girl has no feelings for you and is rejecting you. You know, a woman doesn't want to be a bad person or offend others, so she will use being friends as an excuse to imply that she doesn't like you.
For a girl who doesn’t like you emotionally or has no feelings for you, it is basically impossible to try to reverse it by replying with just one sentence. The best way to deal with it is not to pester, at least not to further increase the girl's dislike of you. The days are long, and as long as she doesn't delete you or completely deny you, there is still a certain chance.
High emotional intelligence reply: OK.
For girls who have already confessed and have clearly expressed their affection, this One sentence is enough to judge. It may be that your obvious expression made her feel pressure, or it may be that you are eager to get the woman to give you a clear attitude. When she is not 100% sure that she has a crush on you, she can only refuse. It's also possible that a woman finds out through getting along that she doesn't call you or doesn't like you, implying that you've given up on her.
High emotional intelligence reply: OK.
First tell the girl that you will not pester her, and then judge the specific situation based on her attitude. If it's the former, you should hurry up and learn some correct ways to warm up your relationship with girls. If it's the latter, there's no need to continue pursuing it.
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