Aloof girls always give people a feeling of being unapproachable, so many boys are unwilling to pursue them. In fact, the aloofness of many girls is superficial. Once you get to know her, you will find that they are not only considerate, but also Understanding, perhaps surprisingly simple and lovable.
However, the difficulty in pursuing a cold girl lies in the process of getting to know her, because before you get to know her, you barely have a few words with her, and she starts to react coldly. Can't talk.
Next, the editor will teach you a way to deal with a cold girl, just four steps to ask her out.
The first step: attract her attention
To deal with aloof girls, our ordinary chat methods will definitely not work. The first thing you need to do is Arouse her curiosity and continue the topic.
Girls naturally need to be led by men. The purpose of starting a topic directly is to attract girls’ attention to your conversation and lead girls to chat;
Girls are emotional animals, so It can quickly interest girls. Even if she is a cold girl, she will be very concerned about other people's feelings towards her.
At this time, we can find a photo of her through her avatar or circle of friends and send it to her. This detail made her feel emotional.
Step 2: Resonate with girls
If we want to resonate with aloof girls, we can talk about food with girls. Because most girls like to eat, they will never talk about food. wrong.
And through eating, you can also think of many topics, such as the snacks of childhood, spicy strips, Shuang Wai Wai, whether you can cook, and can use our New Oriental routines.
You can also talk about fitness through meals. One of the topics that girls like is fitness. If this cold girl replies that she wants to lose weight, we can reply "I have a weight loss secret here." If the girl asks "What is it?" you can joke and say, "Give me all the delicious food, and I will tell you."
Step 3: Show your romantic feelings
"The carriages and horses were very slow at that time"
Through such topics, let the girl know that you are a sentimental and romantic man , only different from other men. Only girls are willing to chat with you.
Don’t do everything possible just because a girl sends you something.What do you want to say? Sometimes we don't have to pick up her topic. If she sends a photo and you say it's so beautiful and awesome, the girl will think you're perfunctory.
Step 4: How to invite friends
Remember that the purpose of our chat is to invite friends. Why do some brothers date each other? Girls who don’t come out because I don’t give girls enough sense of security, I use the premise to ensure that you go home, so that girls feel that coming out with me is just for a simple meeting;
Be sure to meet and flirt according to the type of girl. , if the girl you like is more conservative, you can omit this flirting part to avoid causing discomfort to the girl and making her think you are frivolous.
