Chasing girls is an exciting and stressful thing, but sometimes we find ourselves chasing for a long time without making any progress. At this time, we need to seriously think about whether our performance has the following problems:
1. Failure to establish good communication< /h3>
If you don’t establish good communication with a girl, it will be difficult for you to resonate with each other. If you just greet and say hello in a chat without in-depth communication, it will be difficult for such a relationship to progress.
2. Not attentive and considerate enough
Girls like to be taken care of. If you are not attentive and considerate enough to her, then she will feel that you don't care about her. For example, he didn't lend a helping hand in time when she needed help, or he didn't give her a small gift on her birthday, etc.
3. Relying too much on appearance
Although attractive appearance is important, relying too much on appearance to attract girls will not work. If you're pursuing someone just because they're beautiful, it's difficult to maintain a long-term relationship even if you succeed.
4. Lack of self-confidence
Lack of self-confidence is a big taboo when chasing girls. If you always show low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, then the girl will feel that you are not capable of taking care of her. . At the same time, being too nervous and anxious can also make girls feel stressed.
5. Not mature enough
Girls like mature and steady men. If you are always naive, frivolous or irresponsible, then girls will think you are not reliable enough. Deal with problems calmly and rationally rather than making decisions emotionally.
Chasing girls requires us to seriously consider whether our performance has the above problems. Only by correcting these problems can we better attract girls' attention.
