Question: Two years ago, I met a girl on a blind date. At that time, I didn’t have any objection to this girl. She was an average-looking girl, nothing outstanding. I just met her and I didn’t have any feelings for her at home (both parents). ) and pressed me very hard. In less than a month, we started to sit together to discuss the bride price. The relationship between us had not developed well yet, which made me feel very disgusted with the matter. Then I said it was inappropriate and bye bye.
During the past two years, I had a relationship with one person. We got to know each other freely and we dated for more than a year. Later, we separated due to objective reasons (it was not that our relationship was not good). Now, I am still single. One day, my parents mentioned that the girl from 2 years ago was still single, and they asked me to introduce them to each other (there is no need to get to know each other again). Is this a twist of fate? I am still considering whether to accept my parents' idea. , if you accept it, based on your parents’ experience, it is quite possible that this will happen. If you don’t accept it, then there will be no consequences.
What should I do if I want to contact my previous blind date?
Answer: Some truths are hard to hear, but you still have to be selective and tactful. This girl on a blind date has not been selected by anyone else or has not been selected by anyone else during the two years. It sounds like she really has "nothing outstanding".
You weren’t disgusted with her before, you just didn’t feel it. Then it's no different than how you feel about passers-by. Even if you try with her now, you still don't like her. Unless the relationship you have been in for more than a year has hurt you too much and made you think that women are all liars and love is a piece of shit, so much so that you can just find a random woman to get married to.
If you don’t have such negative thoughts, I think you should stop irritating this blind date girl. It's possible to try and say goodbye to her. Because if she is rejected twice by the same person, I'm afraid she won't be able to bear the blow in the future.
Of course, from the perspective of the blind date girl, if I were her, I would never give you a chance. Especially, you have failed in dating for more than a year, and then you look back and remember that there is someone at the bottom. Who do you think she is?
However, if she or her family is too impatient and thinks that it is a man, then they may not take it into consideration. Self-respecting but not self-respecting. If you are more proactive, they may be willing to try it again with you.
But no matter what, I don’t think the ending will be too good. Because Danfen has a choice, neither of you will try to turn around again. There are many things that I am afraid of pondering. Driven by such subtle thoughts, it's impossible for you to get to know each other again without any distractions. Unless you suddenly have a feeling of sympathy for each other, plus you are beaten by reality and urged by your family members on both sides, maybe you two can discuss it and just live together like this. But I don’t think you are an emotionally flexible person.
Anyway, I built itIt is proposed not to look back to the previous blind date.
