I found out that no, in real life, boys often take the initiative to chase girls. In fact, it’s okay to take the initiative. The key is that sometimes if you take the initiative to chase girls, there may not be results. So what should you do? How can a boy make a girl chase him? After reading the analysis below, you will know how to make girls chase you.
How to make girls chase you?
1. Change the mentality of chasing girls
Everyone talks about straight men, but some boys are really straight. When it comes to When chasing a girl, you should confess your feelings immediately, as if the matter will be finalized immediately and there will be a result, because straight men are afraid that they will be rejected in the end after giving in. But when it comes to falling in love, you can't just start from the moment you feel the other person is good, and you have to immediately jump to the middle where the two people hit it off. It takes a process.
And why the final result must be that the other party rejects you, instead of you having more contact with girls and finding out that they are suitable and then giving up the pursuit. What's up? This is also the mentality you should have. Realize that pursuit does not mean that you must confess your feelings to the other person immediately, or that you must have a result with the other person immediately.
2. Be friends with girls first
Every time you come into contact with a girl, you imply to yourself that I am chasing her. I deserve to be nervous and scared. You must first make friends with her. Try getting along with a girl as a friend, because when a girl is examining you, you are also examining her. When you go out with a girl with this kind of mentality of trying it out, you will find that you no longer have such fear. Because when you tell yourself that you want to get in touch first, you are giving yourself a psychological hint that you are taking the initiative. Therefore, yours. Your attention will be more focused on the state of getting along with two people, and you will also show the normal mode of getting along with friends.
3. Don’t worry about gains and losses
But when you tell yourself that you want to perform well when chasing her, The psychological hint you give yourself is that you are in a passive position. You can't help but focus on whether you made any mistakes and whether what you said is good or not. Brothers who have experienced this kind of mentality know that in this situation, you may not even be able to speak normally. So when you no longer pursue girls with such a strong purpose and maintain a good mentality, you will no longer lose yourself in worrying about gains and losses.
I know that when brothers face a girl they like, they always think about her and gradually forget the importance of attraction. A girl will not stay with you just because you are nice to her. At the same time, a girl will stay with you because you are very attractive. If you do not attract her, then there is a high probability that you will become a licking dog. And if you want to be a person that makes girls chase you, you have to attract her.
