Chasing a girl is not something you can do without thinking and being nice to her. Many times you need some prerequisites. If you don’t even know these, it will be difficult to chase a girl. Then there are all the prerequisites for making a girl like you. Which ones are there?
What are the prerequisites for a girl to like you?
1. Understand what kind of girl she is
Is she a ghostly little girl? What about a mature urban beauty like me? Is she very professional at work or is she in a period of confusion?
No matter what type of girl she is, she knows how to close the distance and make her feel that you and her are the same. Being of the same kind is the first step to success, which is equivalent to half a leg already entering someone's home.
You feel that her mental age is still very immature, which suddenly arouses your desire for protection. Then you should be careful not to always talk to her in an elder's tone.
Think about it, for a rebellious child, the second oldest person in the family is enough to annoy her, so don’t add to the trouble.
You also have to show your childish side a little bit to make her feel that you understand her and will fully support her if you are her boyfriend. This is better than anything else.
You can also talk about your confusion and your experience when appropriate, so that she can feel: He and I are similar, we think the same thing, and he still understands me quite well.
2. Understand what kind of love she wants
Some girls have been in love several times , I felt that I had experienced everything I should have experienced, and I also felt that I was no longer young, so I wanted to find a suitable person and get married.
At this time, she needs a stable partner who can live her life, so this partner and her must at least have the same outlook and temper.
Some girls, no matter their age, have no idea about getting married now.
She definitely doesn’t want to wait for her to fall in love. This boyfriend only cares about planning a future with her. Now she just wants to find someone with whom she can go crazy and make trouble together.
No need for daily necessities, just simple happiness. Then after you see it clearly, you have to judge whether your own and the girl's views on love are compatible, or whether you are willing to adjust or even change your own views on love for her.
