The word guilt is generally used when you have done something not very good, and you feel guilty when you feel uneasy about your conscience. So if a boy is chasing a girl, what does it mean when a girl says she feels guilty? The girl sees you being so nice to her, but she can't respond, so when she says she feels guilty, is she actually rejecting you?
1. Girls think you are chasing girls too hastily
Many boys act too hastily when chasing girls, but it takes a process for a girl to develop feelings for a boy, not Say that you kept giving yesterday, and she would immediately respond with love and enthusiasm. You didn't give her a digestion process and give each other a natural space for development. It's like planting a seedling in spring. It needs to go through the three seasons of spring, summer and autumn. It needs sunshine and air. You can't do it all the time. Watering, pest control and fertilization are all done. Just do what you need to do, and leave the rest to time and fate.
So at this time you should control the intensity of emotional release, or control the amount and speed of giving. A girl may not dislike you. For example, she may feel that she is warming up slowly, but you are warming up rapidly. She cannot match your warmth, feels pressured and unnatural, and hopes you will adjust your pace.
When chasing too closely, sometimes it is not entirely because you love the other person too much. Sometimes it is really because of a lack of security, lack of confidence, fear of being intercepted by others before harvesting, and also, that you cannot Carefully observe the other person's acceptance and adjust your own attitude... When others are full, you should be able to feel it from their voice and attitude, but maybe you close your eyes and continue to feed, even though the food is good, so are you. It's hard work, but the other party is unhappy, can't blame you, can't repay you, and can't reject you, so you're in a dilemma. So it’s better to control the pace and adjust the rhythm.
2. Girls give you the good guy card
In fact, in real life, the boys who are fined with the good guy card are all good to girls, and there is nothing wrong with their own character. , but the girl just didn’t call, so I could only decline by sending a good friend card. In this case, unless you can change the girl's opinion of you, there is basically no chance.
3. The girl did something sorry for you
If the girl is your girlfriend, she will You say guilty, then you need to pay attention. There are many possibilities: a. She has done something sorry for you; b. She may want to leave you; c. She does not love you very much in her heart, but you are very protective of her, and she feels guilty. No matter which situation it is, I believe it is not what you are happy to see. How to decide depends on the specific situation.
Generally speaking, no matter "girls say they are ashamed""What does guilt mean?" It all means that your current relationship is not going well. It is recommended that you analyze the girl's potential meaning and then decide what to do.
