Many boys want to start an offensive if they feel that they are quite satisfied with the blind date after someone introduces them to them. For example, if you chat with a girl on a blind date every day, and want to ask the girl out when you are free, but when boys do these behaviors, they often do not consider how the girl on a blind date feels. Let’s analyze whether the girl on a blind date needs to be contacted every day? Decide based on your situation.
1. Don’t forcefully change the other person’s concept
In our lives, we have seen people who dated for a few days and then got together or got married. We have also seen people who dated for a year and became bored every day. Fruity. So when it comes to whether a blind date needs to be contacted every day, everyone has their own methods and ideas. Some people like to contact every day and feel that the relationship cannot heat up without contact, but some people feel that it is impossible to talk about it and keep in touch for a while. One time is enough, so don’t impose your own ideas on the other person. If the other person doesn't like your pace, that's not his or her problem. You can try to make him or her like it, but don't force a change...
2. Maintain the rhythm and frequency of contact
Nowadays, there are indeed many people who really can’t come up with a reason when chatting with a girl on a blind date; it would be awkward to force a few words. If both the man and the woman on the blind date are of this type, it doesn’t have to be that they talk every day. Just maintain a frequency. It can be three days, five days, or a week. I also met two young people who never chatted online, but they made appointments every week. After several appointments, they got together... And some people who are in contact with each other every day sometimes don't care about each other because of trivial matters. I was happy, or I was really busy at work and took a day off, which lowered the relationship between the two.
3. Don’t double standards
I really want to criticize some young people here. It is obvious that I am extremely passive every time, unable to think of topics or pick up the conversation. When someone treats you warmly, you respond with awkward chatting... but in the end, the other person stops talking to you for a day or two and accuses him of something wrong. He also says that because he has less contact with me, he must not like me.
Then the question is, if we find that the other person’s frequency is inconsistent with our own after going on a blind date, what should we do?
Assuming that after the blind date, both parties do not hate each other and are willing to try to develop;
IV. Things to note when contacting a girl on a blind date
1. See if you can accept the other person’s frequency first
You are a person who likes to contact you every day, but the other person is a workaholic and likes to contact you every day. Once, you first try to see if you can accept his frequency. If you can easily accept it and think it's okay, then go for it. Don't care whether the contact is frequent, the important thing is that the two of you must be on the same page first.
2. See if you can make the other person like your rhythm
Many times we can’t come up with anything in a chat. This is because many people are not good at chatting due to their personalities. If you are a person who is good at chatting, you can take the other person with you at this time. If the other person is very happy and laughing every time you chat, I think generally no one will refuse.
3. Try not to interrupt the rhythm of contact
After you have a tacit understanding, try to maintain that rhythm. One day should be one day, and three days should be three days. Nowadays, blind dates are all in the fast-food mode. It is easy to be mistakenly killed by the other party if the contact is interrupted. Even if something really happens, you should explain it to the other party. Unless you have no feelings for this person
4. Don’t rush to kill someone by mistake if the rhythm occasionally breaks, clarify it first
Don’t look at so many blind date problems on the Internet now, there are really many at that time People like to hold back without saying anything, without asking, and just instinctively make decisions on their own. Sometimes people who have been chatting well suddenly lose contact, become pessimistic, and then kill each other by mistake; therefore, please remember to understand the situation first so as not to miss the chance.
