When a girl is sick and uncomfortable, it reflects the warm and masculine attributes of boys. When a girl is in favor, what is the warmest answer when a girl says she has a cold?
When most boys take the initiative to tell a girl that they have a cold, they respond with rational thinking + perspective, such as:
Why do you have a cold? You need to take medicine. Okay? You can take some cold medicine, it’s very useful
Why are you so careless? Didn’t I tell you to wear more clothes?
From now on, check the weather forecast before going out every day, you know? ?
Such a reply is equivalent to treating the girl’s cold as a problem. Although there is nothing wrong with replying like this, it is not the answer that girls want, and it is not warm at all. Know that girls are emotional, and the response they want is not a solution, but your attitude towards her.
So the correct way to reply should be:
I believe that when you chat with someone in life, you will also decide what to say based on your familiarity with him or her, for example, if you are very familiar with yourself, People who are familiar with them will talk about everything, but for people they are not so familiar with, they will be more polite and talk less.
Therefore, when a girl says she has a cold, we should also use perceptual thinking to decide how to warm her up based on our relationship with her. Xin’s reply:
1. I am in the stage of getting to know the girl.
In the stage of getting to know the girl, I usually have a relationship with the girl just as an ordinary colleague or classmate. She said she had a cold. , is to show that you are uncomfortable. At this time, the girl's chat window does not give value, so don't rush to show concern, it will make the girl think that you are kneeling and licking, and you are a licker.
All you need to do is reply to her with a hint of concern: "Keep warm and take medicine."
2. The stage of close relationship and mutual affection with the girl
At this stage, you have a certain understanding and attraction with the girl, then the girl says "I "I've got a cold" also means that she is feeling uncomfortable, but at this time the girl's chat window has a hint: she wants to be comforted.
At this time, you have to seize this window to express your concern. For example:
"Oh, why don't you pay attention to your health? Keep warm and don't make the cold worse."
"I feel your discomfort"
"It's really worrying to see you feeling so uncomfortable with the cold. Have you taken your medicine?"
"Yesterday and today you were fine. Why did you catch a cold? It must be very uncomfortable. I feel really sorry for you. Are you okay? Take medicine?"
Or divert the girl’s attention and start the topic
Hug (emoticon), it’s really uncomfortable to have a cold, and everything you eat tastes tasteless. From now on, I’ll catch a cold for you, and all your delicious food will be Give it to me, how about it?
I used to catch colds often, so I’m very familiar with colds. I’ll tell him when I take the time. Maybe you’ll be fine tomorrow. Then, remember to thank me.
In fact, there are many similar replies. As long as your reply makes the girl feel that you understand her feelings, care about her and feel sorry for her, then it will be a heart-warming reply that she wants.
