Question: I am born in the 90s. When I argue with my girlfriend, she always likes to use the word "haha" to express anger, or she calls me a fool. In fact, my impression of "Haha" still remains when I first came into contact with chat rooms and OICQ, and I tried my best to sound more mature. Many times, it is expressed with the word "hehe". But now, what I feel about the word "haha" is a gentle but not exaggerated smile. There is no intention to insult or ridicule anyone. I want to ask if girls are always swearing when they chat with each other? I don’t know what you think of this matter.
Does a girl mean to curse when she chats?
Actually, the word "hehe" at the beginning was actually an onomatopoeia to express happiness, but for some reason, the context of "hehe" in the chat gradually changed to mean anger, arrogance, and swearing, so There is a saying that chatting ends with hehe. This is hard to understand, but it is indeed true.
Not only hehe, but also [smile], [goodbye] and other once friendly expressions have now become a way to express negative emotions.
When online chatting just became popular, hehe was still a warm modal word. It represents the speaker's honest chuckle. You can imagine that sound, a soft, short, "haha".
With the development of the Internet, people are increasingly eager to vent their emotions on the Internet, and people are keen to express criticism, ridicule, dissatisfaction and other negative emotions. And Haha arouses people's disgust because it does not have any information content. It always tries to express its friendliness with a simple laugh, thereby concealing its true attitude. At the same time, it appears that the speaker is mysterious and secretive. Therefore, as an interlocutor, it is normal to feel perfunctory.
In this online world full of negative emotions, haha, and the smiling expressions and goodbye expressions that seem to be smiling but not smiling. Likewise, it has become a weapon to ridicule others. To a certain extent, this is the development of language symbols, and no one can stop it. If you do not adapt to such changes, misunderstandings will inevitably occur during communication. When you send hehe as a friendly expression to others, even if the other person knows that you are not malicious, they will feel a little unhappy in their heart, and it will also leave the other person with a feeling that you cannot keep up with the changes, as if you were old in the last century. The same impression as a human being.
Summary: Regardless of whether the girls’ chats are meant to curse or not, all we can do is follow the trend and don’t try to argue, because no matter how much you argue, you can’t stop reality and you can’t convince others.
