Girls are easily affected by emotions. When she is in a bad mood, if she can be given appropriate comfort, it will easily escalate the relationship. However, when girls say they are upset, many boys don't know how to comfort them. Today I will teach you how to comfort a girl when she is upset?
What is the best way to comfort a girl when she is upset?
1. Ask about the reason and listen patiently
When a girl says she is upset, you must first find out the cause. Only by treating the cause of irritability can we prescribe the right medicine. If the other person is unwilling to tell you the reason, you will easily get angry if you continue to comfort them. Not every girl is willing to accept comfort from others when she is upset.
If a girl is willing to share with you the reasons for her irritability, what we have to do is to listen patiently. Don’t lecture her, but help her stand in line, and patiently listen to her position and ideas.
2. Exaggerate the situation to show attitude
After knowing the reason for the girl’s irritability, you must exaggerate the situation to show that you don’t care about solving the problem in the first place. To make a woman feel that you are sincere with your momentum, you must not just stay at the verbal level, but go deep into actions to help her solve the problem.
The girl felt uncomfortable and unhappy, so she said she would go to her immediately and call 120 to go to the psychological emergency department. If you are not with a girl, take a taxi and book a high-speed rail ticket to go there immediately. Your attitude goes far beyond words of comfort. Don't worry, in most cases, girls won't really let you go. Even if they really let you go, the girl really needs you and will naturally compensate you in the future.
3. Empathy, comfort and encouragement
When I express my position and attitude, On the contrary, girls will feel that we are making a fuss out of a molehill and will persuade you in turn. At this time, you need to use your empathy and empathize with her from her standpoint. What a girl needs is your listening and understanding to help her vent her irritating emotions. If you want to make a girl feel that you care about her and that you understand her, more than half of the girl's irritability will disappear.
For example, your boss is too irritating. He makes you work overtime when he is angry. This is obviously exploiting child labor.
For example, you are too strong. Facing such great pressure, you can bear it alone for so long. I would definitely not be able to withstand it.
4. Sweet words, taking the opportunity to heat up the situation
At this point, the girl’s emotions have basically calmed down. . At this time, it’s time to use sweet words and flirty words. Give her a relaxed and happy mood, and even give her a little something to look forward to.
For example, you have so many worries recently,It’s time to take you out for a walk and see the great rivers and mountains of our motherland.
For example, I have a dancing kitten at home, which is very healing. You should spend time with it.
For example, I feel sorry for you. I will stew pork rib soup to replenish you when you are empty.
