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In addition to being a day for family reunions, Chinese New Year is also a day for blind dates. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with going on a blind date, but if your blind dates always fail, I think many people won’t want to go on a blind date. But what’s the solution? It’s impossible to avoid the curse of blind dates without solving the problem of being single.

Today, the editor will talk to you about the topic of what to do if blind dates always fail. In fact, many blind dates fail now not because the conditions are not met, but because they look down on each other. More The reason is that it is caused by half a sentence or more without speculation, so today we will take a look at what is more likely to be successful when talking on a blind date?

< h2>1. Don’t have question-and-answer conversations

Question-and-answer conversations are easy for boys to open their mouths, but for girls, this is a very annoying way of chatting.

For example:

Boys: "Do you like shopping?"

Girls: "Yes.

If a girl doesn't want to ask If she chats with you for a long time, she will chat to death and make you unable to continue. In this way, the two parties will not be able to understand each other more, and the scene will slowly cool down. Therefore, we should ask open-ended questions when chatting. , which is conducive to the expansion of the topic.

For example: "Where do you like to go shopping?" "Do you like shopping for clothes or food?" After the girl answers, you can continue the conversation.

< h2>2. Less rational thinking, more emotional expression

For some stupid and introverted boys, chatting is a very painful and torturous thing, not only for themselves, but also for the other party. When chatting, boys are used to expressing themselves with rational thinking, so they speak very straightforwardly and say what comes to mind. But most girls are emotional creatures, so when two people chat, they are often not on the same channel.

< p> When encountering this kind of situation, you need to practice your perceptual thinking and learn to express problems in perceptual ways, such as open-ended questions and answers, sense of humor, storytelling, etc.

3. Downplay the purpose of blind dates

Many people go on blind dates for the purpose of getting married. Don’t have a strong purpose when chatting, as this will make girls feel very confused.

If you want to communicate well with a girl on a blind date, you should first treat her as a friend when you meet her for the first time, rather than directly getting to know her as your future partner.

We shouldn’t think about settling life-long affairs in just one meeting. Relationships need to be cultivated slowly. If you don’t have a good impression at the beginning, who will be willing to marry you? Who will talk to you in the future?

4 , Diversity of chat topics

We can chat with friends about many topics, such as our previous experiences, interests and hobbies, family and friends, childhood anecdotes, food movies, be sure to find topics that the other person is interested in talking about.

When chatting, listen more, pay attention to details, learn to dig out topics from the other party’s words, and guide the other party to talk more about their more prominent points.

In fact, what you chat about will not affect the outcome of the blind date. The key point is whether you can create a comfortable atmosphere and feeling in the process, making people want to continue chatting with you. Whether to leave a good impression on girls during a blind date. Therefore, when chatting, you must pay attention to the lively atmosphere and emotional communication and interaction.

Have you learned it? If there is anything still unclear, please ask me in a private message.