For many boys, if a girl is willing to be ambiguous with you, she should be preparing for development. After all, no one will waste time on someone they don’t like. But if the person you are having an affair with suddenly stops chatting, boys will become more panicked. After all, not chatting probably means that the other person is not willing to continue chatting with you. Let’s analyze why the person you were ambiguous with suddenly stopped chatting?
1. Girls are not very responsible for feelings.
Just like there are scumbags in Ganquan Town, some girls are not very responsible in dealing with feelings, and they quickly confess their feelings to boys. , suddenly became cold and stopped chatting, and even if the boy took the initiative, he wouldn't reply much. Even if a boy goes to confess to her, the answer he gets is basically like I just treat you as a friend (sister). And the girl who was originally ambiguous with you suddenly becomes cold. It may be due to ex, or it may be that you are the only one who takes it seriously, and the other person is just ambiguous. Reflecting on your previous ambiguous interactions, subjectively, maybe you didn’t do anything wrong, but somehow you lost. Objectively speaking, you may have done something wrong without knowing it; you may not have done anything wrong, but your opponent did the right thing. To sum up, this kind of girl doesn't play by common sense. You don't know when she will become cold to you, and you are completely confused.
2. Girls feel that the ambiguity is fruitless
It may be that the person you were ambiguous with suddenly stopped chatting. Because she felt that if the ambiguity continued there would be no results, it would be better to give up as soon as possible. Because she is not sure whether you really like her or just use her as a pastime when you are lonely. Even if you are ambiguous, a serious girl will put effort into the relationship and guess what you are thinking. Is it right if you don’t express it further? If she is not satisfied enough, she will be very tired. And she wants to stop being ambiguous with you and have no contact with you, because no one knows whether there will be results if you continue like this, and it will be a waste of energy and make yourself very tired. Therefore, if you really like a girl, please have an affair with her on the premise of dating. Don't let the girl worry about whether her sincerity will be wasted.
3. The girl has other ambiguous partners
If the girl is only ambiguous with you, you are not sure In a relationship, you can end the ambiguity at any time. If the person you were having an affair with suddenly stops chatting, it may be that she has another romantic partner. She is busy chatting with other boys, and of course she has no time to contact you. Maybe there are one, two, three, four or five boys in her hands observing at the same time. You are no longer the one at the top, so it will only be a matter of time before you stop chatting.
In fact, the person you were ambiguous with suddenly stopped chatting. It’s just that you think it’s sudden. Maybe she wants to make this decision.You must have thought about many possibilities, but you are just ignorant.
