When chatting with a girl you like, there will be awkward conversations. This is usually caused by forcing you to find a topic when you clearly have no topic left and you don’t want to end the chat. So how to avoid this happening?
If the girl does not provide any topics in the chat, but you restart repeatedly, this will happen:
Male: "Haha, your name is so interesting."
Female: "It's not bad."
Male: "When I look at your name, I think you are from XX." Style, aren’t we fellow villagers?”
Female: “No, I’m from XX.”
Male: “There are so many pictures of crayfish in your circle of friends, you are very cool. Do you like eating it?"
Female: "Yes, I like it very much."
Male: "I also like crayfish very much. I will treat you to it some other time."
Female: "Thank you."
Girls do not provide any topics, nor do they extend the topics based on boys. Instead, they passively accept the boys' inquiries. When girls don’t respond well, boys will keep restarting the topic over and over again. Even if you didn’t start the topic in the household registration mode, the girl will drag you into the household registration mode.
At this time, we can use some humorous words to tease ourselves and her, divert the girl's attention and activate her thinking.
A little teasing can easily resolve the tension. If she is willing to joke with you, the embarrassment will be alleviated.
Another situation is that a girl activates the screening mechanism. She wants to screen out a man who is strong and understands women. Simply put, he is a valuable man.
Her attitude can automatically expose a man’s own characteristics:
If you leave after just one or two sentences, she will think that you are impatient or casting a wide net. Flirting with girls;
If you are helpless in the face of her attitude and can't say anything interesting, she will think you are an incompetent man;
See her lack of interest and then keep turning on her New topics, but none of them can interest her, and she will think you are a man who doesn't understand girls.
As long as a girl feels that there is something about you that she is not satisfied with, she will be eliminated directly.
Therefore, when you have no topic, or the girl doesn’t respond well, you should temporarily interrupt the chat and don’t continue Ask questions and keep trying to find topics to attract her attention. Otherwise, you may be trapped by the girl screening mechanism and become a target of being screened out.
Even if you don’t become a target of screening, you still have to deal with this kind of trouble.Her behavior of finding ways to talk has also reduced your value in disguise, hasn't it?
What's more, when you fall into this state of strongly wanting to talk to a girl, you may need to rack your brains and think hard, but she only needs "yeah", "right" and "really" ” can handle you all day.
If you are tired and she is not tired, why bother?
So remember one sentence: Don’t talk too much, and don’t tease!
It may be your fault if a girl doesn’t respond well once or twice, but it may be your fault if a girl doesn’t respond well three or four times. , no matter whose fault it is, it is not suitable to force the conversation.
