If chatting with a girl does not arouse her emotions, your relationship will not progress no matter how long you chat. The ups and downs of emotions during chatting are the driving force for the relationship. So how do you mobilize a girl's emotions through chatting and make her like you?
1. Create ups and downs
Brothers who often listen to instructors should be able to think of one word: push and pull.
That’s right, it’s push and pull. Its specific method is to first use some suppression in language and behavior to bring the girl's mood to a low point, and then use turning words before the low point has a real impact on the girl, or make up for the behavior and lift it up in time (this is very important) It is important, otherwise it will not be raised in time, causing the girl to be psychologically traumatized by the trough or have bad feelings towards you, which will make her lose her mind).
For example, when you should give a girl a gift, you deliberately pretend to be stupid and deny that you want to give her a gift. When she feels a little lost and sad, you say: "Idiot, I'm kidding you." Then take out the gift. Give it to her.
When going on a date, hide first and tell her that she won’t come. At this time, the girl will be very emotional, either angry or sad, and then suddenly hug her from behind (taken if the relationship is not that close) Just a tap on the shoulder).
2. Ask for rewards
As the saying goes: if computers are repaired well, good people will grow old. Why does repairing computers for girls become a label for orphans and honest people?
There is no other reason, it’s just because you don’t ask for anything in return. After helping a girl fix her computer, the girl will basically express her gratitude verbally: "Thank you, I'll treat you to milk tea next time." Most "honest people" are very polite and say: "It's okay, it's just a little effort." Remember to call me if you need help in the future. "Do you think girls will remember you silently in their hearts if you don't ask for anything in return?
Girls will not be grateful to you because you don't ask for anything in return. Because she thinks you are very noble, she will only think this person is really stupid. After you leave, she can happily use the computer to video chat with other boys.
There is no way, people are like this, it is always easy to forget the kindness of others to oneself, but firmly remember the debt that others owe to oneself. You serve her for free, and it’s easy for a girl to forget your kindness, but you must have asked for something from her, and the girl will remember you firmly!
Yes, computers can be repaired, and they can be repaired well, but it’s not enough if you only know how to repair computers. After you finish the repairs, you must ask her for payment!
" Done! I helped you solve such a big trouble, how can you thank me?"
"Let's go, treat you to ice cream."
If a girl takes the initiative to tell you the reward first, don't just accept it as is. Remember to "bargain" to strengthen the impression. Of course, the principle is not to be too aggressive. You can whet the girl's appetite first, and then slightly strengthen your requirements.
"Thank you, I will buy you breakfast tomorrow."
"Wow, I have solved such a big trouble for you. Breakfast is not good, at least... you have to take out at noon. It’s wrapped.”
