If you have a girl you like, what you can do at first is to take the initiative to chat with her to increase your understanding. After the chat reaches a certain level, you can try to ask the girl you like out on a date to promote emotional communication... In this series of processes, chatting with girls is inseparable. So how do you pursue the girl you like? How can I chat without turning her off?
1. Humorous chat
No matter what kind of girl you are dealing with, humorous chatting is always a good way to start a chat topic. But some boys may not be able to learn to be humorous, and forcing humor may be counterproductive. Because the real fun is hidden in the details, in the casual words. If you don't know how to do it, don't try it, girls won't like it either.
2. Chat as you like
We offer free shipping on things you like. I am interested in chatting and willing to discuss with others. The same is true for girls. You can observe what kind of things the girl you like is more interested in, what issues she likes to discuss, what hobbies she has... Chat with her according to her preferences, and make the chat between you truly a kind of communication. It's a real chat, not a rigid question and answer session.
For example: If you are a very nervous girl, it is easy to open the topic with the Dou Tu emoticon, hahaha. If the other party is not, obviously this method is useless. Therefore, it is the most effective way to open the topic based on the personality of the other girl.
3. Have your own ideas and stances when chatting
Some boys are facing girls they like. When people say something, they agree with everything and say it is correct, but it would be a bit bad if you just agree with it blindly. If you occasionally put forward some views that are different from the other person's, it may be more attractive to the other person, and they will also find you more attractive. Don’t boys also like girls who have their own unique ideas and the ability to think independently? So the reverse is also the same
Specific approach: Put forward your point of view, leave room for it, and don’t try to suppress the other party!
4. Don’t deliberately chat awkwardly
Many times we say that when chatting with girls you like, don’t talk frequently. Good morning and good night, (what I mean here is, don’t have any other topics besides good morning and good night. It doesn’t mean that you are not allowed to say good morning and good night). Don’t deliberately make awkward conversations. After saying good morning and good night, there is nothing else to talk about. (Good morning and good night can also be regarded as a ritual, but there is no need to balabala alone after good morning) Deliberate awkward chatting will only waste patience and goodwill, and good morning and good night are more meaningful than awkward chatting. You really don’t want to chat awkwardly. ! ! !
Natural ways to open up the topic by saying good morning and night:
(1) You can take a picture of breakfast and say: Get up, I had a delicious breakfast today, good morning.
(2) You can send a photo of the scenery near your morning jog and say, "You're up and running. Good morning." (Forget it for guys who don’t have this habit. I didn’t say it. I only went there for one day and then slept until noon. It’s better not to do it.) If you have this habit, girls will also think that you are a self-disciplined person. A good impression.
(3) If you get up very early and the weather is fine, you can shine brightly and say: Good morning, the weather is very good today.
In fact, pursuing the girl you like is not as difficult as you think. Just communicate with your friends as you usually do. Appropriate Just go with what she likes and don't go out of your way to argue with girls, otherwise you won't arouse the girl's resentment.
