I think how you can become a master of chatting is what you are eager to achieve now. It is not impossible. Today I will share with you 30 high emotional intelligence skills. If you learn this set of skills, I believe in you. There will definitely be a qualitative improvement in chatting, so what are you waiting for? Let’s learn together.
1. Change "Haha" to "You are so funny".
2. Change "Oh, oh" to "Not bad, not bad."
3. Change "Are you there" to "I need your help with XX things".
4. Change "Hmm" to "Okay, no problem".
5. Change "Next time" to "I can do it in X days."
6. Change "not bad" to "quite thoughtful".
7. Change "Did you understand?" to "What else do you not understand?"
8. Change “What else do you want from me” to “What else can I improve?”
9. When making a phone call, change "Hello" to "Hello, how can I help you?"
10. When comforting others, change "I am worse off than you" to "I can understand you."
11. When rejecting others, change "no" to "still need to consider".
12. Change "You are so fat" to "You are so cute".
13. Change “unattractive” to “very elegant”.
14. Don’t inquire about other people’s privacy at will. Unless they are willing to tell you, it will be very annoying.
15. When others laugh at themselves, don’t echo them. It would be rude to embarrass others.
16. Change "fuck" to "a thousand words are in my heart".
17. Change "You are so annoyed" to "I want to calm down."
18. Change "I can't" to "I can learn".
19. Change "whatever" to "it's up to you".
20. Change "it doesn't matter" to "I can do it."
21. Change "oh", "ah" and "aw" to "I know".
22. Try to use smiling expressions as little as possible. It always feels strange and has a feeling of contempt.
23. The address "elder" can be changed to "you".
24. Don’t interrupt others casually. No matter how much you want to express, you should wait for the other person to finish speaking.
25. Keep "thank you" and smile on your lips, and others will have a better impression of you.
26. Praise each other’s strengths more. Girls praise clothes and accessories, while boys praise their ability and carefulness.
27. Vent less emotions to friends and family and share more happiness. The more negative emotions you have, the farther away others will be from you.
28. When others praise you for your good looks, you can say, "All good-looking people say so."
29. Change "I don't know" to "I can understand again."
30. Change "I recognized the wrong person" to "I have really good eyesight and I have made new friends."
The above is all about the 30 words of high emotional intelligence. Have you learned it? It doesn’t matter if you don’t remember it. Remember to save it so that you can read it at any time.
